| If you want to meet women, nightclubs | | | | female workmates know that you're open |
| can seem like the obvious place to go. | | | | to blind dates - they'll soon be |
| Everyone there is out to have fun, and | | | | competing to set you up with your |
| with alcohol lessening both her | | | | perfect girl. |
| inhibitions and your own, the odds seem | | | | Accept every party invitation which |
| to be stacked in your favor. | | | | comes your way. If you spot a cutie in |
| But clubs aren't always the best option. | | | | the corner there's no better |
| Think about it. If a girl's busy having | | | | introduction than having a mutual friend |
| fun with her friends she may have no | | | | give you their seal of approval. |
| interest in hooking up and heading home | | | | If you don't fancy leaving things to |
| with you. If she's being approached by | | | | chance, take yourself to places where |
| every man in the place she's a lot less | | | | you know that women will be. |
| likely to pay you any attention. And we | | | | Evening classes are a great way of |
| all know how alcohol can affect our | | | | meeting girls but choose your subject |
| selectivity and performance. | | | | matter wisely. Arts and social subjects |
| So what are the alternatives? | | | | appeal to women and foreign languages |
| The answer is that you can meet women | | | | give you no choice but to make |
| anywhere. If you don't fancy selling | | | | conversation. |
| yourself at speed dating or writing an | | | | Exercise classes are good but dance |
| online profile, you don't have to. Just | | | | classes are even better. You are likely |
| take a look around you. | | | | to be the only unmarried man in the |
| Say you're in the supermarket and you | | | | room, which means you are guaranteed to |
| see a cute chick in the fruit section? | | | | become the center of the girls' |
| Ask her how to check if a passion fruit | | | | attention. Dancing also gives you a |
| is ripe. If she has any interest in | | | | great excuse to get physically close to |
| meeting a man, she'll strike up a | | | | girls, and will teach you the sort of |
| conversation. | | | | mighty impressive moves which women find |
| If you spot a hot woman on a train, sit | | | | so seductive. |
| next to her or make eye contact across | | | | Consider dragging your friends to a |
| the aisle. All it need take is a smile | | | | karaoke bar. Laughing at yourself will |
| to convince her she'd like to talk to | | | | show you have a good sense of humor and |
| you. | | | | the other awful acts give you a great |
| The same approach works in a coffee | | | | excuse to meet her eyes and pull pained |
| shop. Sit in close proximity to her, | | | | expressions. Open mic comedy nights have |
| smile and say hello. Single girls will | | | | much the same effect. |
| be delighted just to know that they've | | | | When it comes to meeting women, there's |
| been noticed. | | | | no secret treasure map to tell you where |
| Everyday life offers all sorts of | | | | to look. Get out and about, keep your |
| opportunities. Your work may not allow | | | | eyes open. Single women want to meet you |
| you to get involved with a colleague, | | | | as much as you want to meet them, so |
| but there's nothing to stop you getting | | | | wherever you spot her, seize your |
| involved with a colleague's friend. | | | | opportunity. You may soon be very glad |
| Women love the opportunity to meddle in | | | | you did. |
| other people's love lives, so let your | | | | |