Ballroom Dance Instruction - How to Become a Good Follower on the Dance Floor

To experience a great dance partnership, it is just asin holding your "block" and arms in one piece.) In the
important to develop following skills as it is tonext section "intent and movement", we will continue
develop leading skills. Therefore the myth: "All I needto talk about the arms and elbows and suggest a
is a good leader, and I can follow anything" - is onlysimple exercise.
partly true. Only if we have good following skills canFocusing on the difference between "Intent" and
the leader dance with power and strength - thus"Movement"
allowing the couple to maintain balance and controlWhen the leader is preparing to move forward, he
and assuring that both partners enjoy the dance.will first compress his supporting foot downwards.
Frequently you will hear the man (also referred to asThis, in turn will begin adding pressure to his upper
the leader) say: "Stop trying to lead - just follow."body, thus indicating an intent to move the lady
Well that works only if the lady (also known as thebackward. Take note here that this should simply
follower) knows "how" and "what" to follow."indicate an intent" to the lady. This is the critical point
There are two basic aspects to following:where many followers misread the lead. Once they
- The "How" - Developing our Frame and Connectionfeel this intent - they instantly move. Instead, when
- The "What" - Focusing on the difference betweenthe lady feels the intent, she should stay on her
"intent" and "movement"supporting foot and compress towards the man until
Developing Our Frame and Connection - Smoothhe commences to move. This is worth repeating. Do
Dances (Closed Position)not move when you feel the pressure or "intent" to
The actual frame (or closed position) is made up ofmove; rather, stay on the supporting foot and press
three points of contact - a triangle between theforward (and upward) and wait for the actual
couple:movement.
1. The lady places her right hand in the man's leftSimple Exercise
hand.At this time, we will again discuss the lady's core,
2. The man places his right hand on the lady's leftarms and shoulders. When the man is indicating intent,
shoulder blademany times the follower will collapse the elbows and
3. The lady places her left hand just below the man'sor shoulders. (Remember the follower's role is to
right shoulder.simply hold her own body forward in one solid piece.)
This triangle has a closed side and an open side. It isTo understand this concept, try this simple exercise:
important here to point out that the follower shouldStand with your feel about 9" from a wall or closed
resist "falling" to the right or open side of the triangle.door - weight towards the balls of the feet. Bring
This can be corrected by becoming aware of keepingyour sternum forward (slightly separating your
our "block" - (hips, ribcage and shoulders - aligned andribcage) and place your hands on the door or wall.
head over the left wrist.) Also check that your rightNotice you are simply supporting your own body -
toe is not turned in.not really pressing the door. This is how comfortable
The "connection" is a little bit more illusive andyour body should feel when you are in dance
complex than building the frame or embrace. First,position. Just simply stay forward and support your
let's discard the notion that we should give the manown weight. It is important to impress upon the
"resistance." Instead, the follower should concentratefollower that this position does not make you feel
on holding the elbows slightly in front of the hips, andheavy - but rather gives the leader the leverage to
the hands forward and upward at all times. Anothermove forward with power and confidence.
really important aspect of the connection is activatingThese concepts require a little thought and practice;
the "core". (If you have participated in palatesbut when you finally understand "how" and "what" to
classes, you are aware of your core; if not, work onfollow, both you and your partner will enjoy the
strengthening your stomach and sternum so that youdance!
are following through your center - thus assisting you