| Let's face it, it is truly gut wrenching to have the | | | | don't condone it but I was a perfectly sane person |
| person you love break up with you. Your ex would | | | | who was contemplating completely insane ways to |
| normally be the first one you run to for comfort in a | | | | get back at my ex. |
| traumatic life changing event. Now they are the | | | | By the grace of God nothing did happen. But I still |
| object of your despair. Not being able to hold them | | | | took revenge. I mean sweet revenge. How did I get |
| for comfort at a time like this feels so strange. If | | | | back at my ex? I became the best person I possibly |
| you have been through a bad break up, often | | | | could be that's how. It may not be the greatest |
| involving an affair or some other breach of trust, | | | | reason in the world for doing something but it did |
| your despair towards your ex may even be turning | | | | motivate me at first. |
| to rage. You have gotten to the point where you | | | | I admit it was not easy but I was determined to |
| are looking for revenge and want to get back at | | | | make sure she would regret breaking up with me. |
| your ex. | | | | First I went and got in the best shape of my life. I |
| You wouldn't be the first person looking to get back | | | | mean really good shape....I got ripped. Also I did |
| at you ex. Most ex lovers don't want to cause any | | | | something I had been wanting to do for a long time. |
| real physical harm but some do. The prisons are | | | | I took swing dance classes. I don't mean stuffy |
| littered with scorned lovers that took criminal ways | | | | ballroom swing but down and dirty "Savoy" swing...the |
| to get back at their ex. I am not condoning them but | | | | cool stuff. I got so good at it I started to win dance |
| I do understand the rage they were feeling. When | | | | contests and met a lot of fun people. One was so |
| you have been dumped (especially for someone else) | | | | much fun I married her !!! |
| by someone you love it is mind numbing. Your world | | | | So what is the best way to get back at your ex? |
| is no longer the same. The one person in the world | | | | Turn around and go be the best person you possibly |
| you trusted, shared your body with, told your hopes | | | | can be. Oh and what happened to my ex ? After |
| and dreams to and even perhaps started a family | | | | she and her boyfriend broke up she emailed me and |
| with has shattered all that. | | | | even wrote me snail mail letters. I truly wished her |
| You may be saying, "heck yes I am looking for ways | | | | the very best and I meant it but I was no longer the |
| to get back at my ex". Let me tell you right now | | | | angry hurt lover. She had no power over me |
| there is a fine line between sanity and insanity. You | | | | anymore and I forgave her. The revenge I felt for |
| may be at the point where you might try anything. | | | | her at the end of the relationship helped catapult me |
| How do I know? Because I have been | | | | into the stronger person I am today. My wife is |
| there.....stalking, camping out on my ex's front porch, | | | | grateful for her too. If she hadn't gotten me so |
| wanting to barge in on my ex's apartment when I | | | | wound up looking for ways to get back at my ex, I |
| knew my ex's new lover was inside. Like I said, I | | | | never would have found my sweet wife. |