| Ladies, you love to dance. Your husband on the | | | | to you. He's likely to melt, and agree. If not, listen |
| other hand may appear to hate dancing. Guess again, | | | | carefully to his protests. |
| he's terrified of dancing. It is going to be a challenge | | | | The most common protest is about how "real men" |
| to get him to attend a dance studio, but once he | | | | don't dance. Ask him if he's ready to handle Ultimate |
| does, he will learn to love dancing. | | | | Fighting Champion Chuck Liddell, and tell him he's not |
| How can you get him to a dance studio to take | | | | a real man. Maybe he wants to tell NFL Superstar |
| lessons? | | | | Michael Irvin he's not a real man. This is just a small |
| You could try tricking him. Tell him you are signing up | | | | sample of some of the heavyweight athletes which |
| for a couples counseling session once a week, and he | | | | have taken part in dance lessons and competition on |
| must attend with you. The panic attack he feels at | | | | the hit TV show Dancing With The Stars. This should |
| first, might be replaced with relief once you tell him it | | | | convince him real men do dance, and he will be willing |
| is really just a dance studio. Hopefully in his relief he'll | | | | to head to the dance studio with you. |
| agree to go along with you. | | | | If that's not enough proof, what about all of those |
| Maybe you want to tell him that cute guy from the | | | | guys in Hip Hop videos. Is he ready to tackle those |
| office wants you to help him learn to dance by being | | | | gentlemen? Most likely he'll start getting the point. |
| his dance partner. After your husband quits yelling his | | | | His real problem is not the fact it is not manly |
| protests, then tell him you'd much prefer going to the | | | | enough, it is the fact he is afraid of learning this new |
| dance studio with him. If you're lucky, he won't go | | | | skill. Remind him gently once again how masculine and |
| hunting for the other guy, and he will join your for | | | | wonderful it will feel to you when he's holding you in |
| the lessons | | | | his arms during a passionate dance, or feeling his |
| You could of course threaten divorce if he does not | | | | power and control during a swing dance. Tell him how |
| attend lessons at the dance studio with you. Not | | | | much fun it will be learning together in the dance |
| really a good idea, since he might just be scared | | | | studio. |
| enough he'll take you up on the offer. | | | | If none of this works, tell him you'll buy the first beer |
| In reality, the best way to get him to agree is to | | | | after every night at the dance studio. You never |
| just express how much you want to spend the | | | | know what is going to work, until you try. Sit down |
| intimate art of dancing in his arms. How passionately | | | | and talk to your husband and soon you'll be enjoying |
| you feel in your desire to be held by him in the | | | | your lessons at the dance studio. |
| excitement of dance. Explain how important it really is | | | | |