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Article #129: Do You Want To Know How To Attract Women In Bars and Clubs?

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Okay, so last time I told you about how to hit on some girls in a stupid way that
to pick up "The Teases" in bars confirms what most girls thinks about
and clubs. Here, in this follow up guys. I would then make a comment about
article I'm going to tell you how to pick how stupid that was, etc. sort of out
up the "Regular Girls." loud to myself or whomever was around
As I told you in previous articles (sort of like I did with the Tease Girl)
"Would You Like To Know How To Pick ending by looking at her in disbelief.
Up Women In Bars And Clubs?" ( and She would then chime in very quickly
"How To Meet Women In Bars and about how stupid it was, and from there I
Clubs"( ) when I was a young , I would lead the conversation into a
worked the bar scene every day for six negative "sex talk" about how I
months straight. I made lots of hated clubs, hated all the games and meat
observations for months. This eventually market stuff that goes on, etc. This
led to my being very successful picking would usually go on for about 15-30
up women in clubs. minutes and then she would invariably say
One of those observations was about those the magic words: "But you are
regular girls who visited the club. I use different" to which I would reply
to call them GRADIENT GIRLS. I called "Yeah, you are different too."
them that because after a lot of From there it could go in many directions
observations I noticed there was a depending on the girls. We might dance,
gradient scale of sexual reach or or continue in an engaging conversation,
interest. Here it is: but now the conversation was into
First there is negative sexual talk positive sexual talk, from there we would
--This is talking about not having sex, start with the little touches etc, and
or not wanting to have sex, or talking eventually it would lead to making out,
about someone else who is into sex as petting, heavy petting, kissing, etc.
creepy, disgusting, or characterizing Now none of these techniques I've
them in some other negative way, etc. discussed in this three part series of
This is the lowest form of sexual articles, are DeAngelo's "Cocky and
interest someone can show you. Because Funny" or any such, and by the way,
they still ARE talking about sex. And Cocky and Funny does work on a small band
they are talking about it with YOU. of girls in the club (and in life) too. I
People who really aren't interested in would label them the Boredom girls.
sex or you don't bring it up at all, and But here is the principal behind Cocky
really don't get "into it" if and Funny and the Love Girl, Tease Girl
you bring it up. I learned about this one and Regular Girl techniques. And that
day, when I was driving a fellow student principal is not to be "Cocky and
home from college. She invited me up to Funny" but rather to be
her apartment, but quickly informed me "Interesting and Unique."
that I couldn't have sex with her. You see the guy who has the balls to walk
Since, I had shown her no sexual up to and confront the horny "Love
interest, and since I really wasn't Girl" is interesting and unique to
interested, I found this rather odd. A her because most guys are too scared to
few weeks later she seduced me. She got do it. But he is definitely Not Cocky and
me to have sex with her when I didn't Funny. He only has to open his mouth and
want to and wasn't really attracted to confidently ask her to dance.
her. This is when I put it all together. The guy who tells the "Tease
She was attracted to me from the very Girl" she's not that hot, but has a
first. And her negative comment about good personality is "interesting and
"not having sex" was the level Unique" to her, because ALL guys
at which she began her sexual flirting. reach at these girls and tell them how
Then positive sexual talk.then Eye beautiful they are.
Contact,then slight brief touching,then The guy who can dish out negative sex
extended touching,then talk to a "Regular Girl" is
kissing,petting,heavy interesting and Unique" to her
petting,intercourse. because she never finds guys like this in
Now most people think sexual interest the club.
starts with positive sexual talk, but it And of course the Boredom Girls, who get
doesn't. And the funny thing about this guy after guy after guy hitting on them
gradient scale is that you have to match and kissing their butt find "Cocky
the level the other person is at or you and Funny" totally interesting and
can lose a prospect very quickly. So if a Unique. Boredom girls are a kind of a
girl is into flirting at "negative random, casual and pointless-talk band of
sexual talk" and you try to come on girl, and Cocky and Funny is random and
her at "positive sexual talk" pointless talk. The other techniques are
you will lose her. more directed.
Now most of your regular girls hanging There are other types of girls too, and
out in clubs, whether with or without combination of types. I go over those in
girlfriends, have a negative view towards some of my other writings and articles.
guys. They think guys who are there just Some techniques are Quick and Easy and
want sex, etc. And they are probably some techniques are pure seduction and
right. So the way I would come on to a can take a very long time. But
regular girl in a club, was simple. none-the-less they are still pickup
I would stand next to her (similar to the techniques.
Tease Girl above) and wait for some guy Copyright © 2007 Mr L.






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