| Women these days are smart and cautious. With | | | | If you find a potential date with any of the |
| the amount of date rape cases on the rise, | | | | strangers that you regularly see as you head |
| going out on a date with a stranger is | | | | to the office, then create interest by |
| becoming less popular. However, the | | | | observing her more closely. Try to know her |
| good-hearted person you are, that should not | | | | schedule or where you see her often. Wait for |
| stop you from asking out an interesting | | | | the right moment to happen, so you have a |
| stranger. | | | | higher chance of getting positive results. |
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| Here are creative ways of asking her out. | | | | When you see her every morning at your |
| | | | favorite café, don't ask her out while |
| Walk Over and Ask | | | | she's picking up an espresso-to-go at 7:30 |
| | | | am. Wait till Friday, when she usually spends |
| The least complex but usually hardest way to | | | | the afternoon with her notebook and a tall |
| ask out a stranger is walking over and asking | | | | latte. That should be a good opportunity to |
| straight away. The very simplicity of walking | | | | make conversation. She's in a relaxed state, |
| over and blurting out a simple, direct | | | | not in a hurry, and maybe open for new |
| question makes the whole strategy | | | | acquaintances. |
| challenging. The execution is so simple that | | | | |
| the success or failure of the move lies | | | | Laundromats are a good place to ask out a |
| entirely on the individual executing it. The | | | | stranger. Why? Because you have the time. |
| proven technique? Have the looks of a Brad | | | | There is nothing more boring than waiting for |
| Pitt, the wit of a George Clooney and the | | | | your cycle to finish. And people usually have |
| Cruiser charm, and you'll sure to get a, | | | | at least 2: whites and coloreds. So that's |
| "yes." | | | | enough time and opportunity for you to gather |
| | | | up the courage and ask. But before doing so, |
| However, for the balance of the population | | | | make sure that you've made your background |
| who is not so fortunate to be like them, | | | | check. Maybe she reads while she waits for |
| there are other options to take, to avoid | | | | the laundry to finish. Ask about the book but |
| getting rejected. | | | | keep the conversation light so she will not |
| | | | be put off by your presence. Offer to help |
| Start with a Complement | | | | when you can, without imposing, so she will |
| | | | not be threatened. Smile genuinely, from the |
| A complement is always a good way to start. | | | | heart and she will see your pure intentions |
| But complementing her looks is so passé | | | | and may become interested to go out. |
| and doubtful because it borders on being a | | | | |
| pick-up line. Try to complement her action or | | | | A Common Acquaintance |
| things that she uses instead of her looks. If | | | | |
| you saw her park perfectly, then complement | | | | In this small American country, people are |
| that and ask if she has time to describe her | | | | connected to each other, in one way or |
| experience with her car. Ask her about the | | | | another. The key is to find your connection |
| notebook she's using, its value and | | | | to the stranger that you are interested in |
| performance, as you are also interested in | | | | going out with. |
| getting one for yourself. Ask about her | | | | |
| mobile and if she's satisfied with her | | | | Spend a week or two observing your stranger. |
| provider. Those should be good starting | | | | If you are lucky enough to find a common |
| points of a conversation and hopefully you | | | | friend, then that is a sure ticket to ask her |
| are able to extend it until you get her | | | | out. Arrange for a chance meeting, or a group |
| number, or a real date. | | | | date to have an opportunity to have a |
| | | | conversation with her. Soon as you are able |
| Be Familiar to the Stranger | | | | to get past the "hi" and, "hello," then you |
| | | | should be able to take it through spending |
| Sometimes, asking out strangers are easy if | | | | some time together alone. |
| they are not a total stranger to you. You may | | | | |
| have seen her weekly at the fruits section of | | | | There's much excitement and adventure in |
| the grocery or she may have caught your eye | | | | asking out strangers. Overcoming the |
| as she was loading her laundry. You may not | | | | challenge is quite fulfilling. However, make |
| know her name, but you certainly can know a | | | | sure that your intentions are genuine and |
| lot about her, just by observing her. | | | | good, for only the pure at heart deserve to |
| | | | go out with the interesting stranger. |