| Women these days are smart and cautious. With the | | | | that you regularly see as you head to the office, |
| amount of date rape cases on the rise, going out on | | | | then create interest by observing her more closely. |
| a date with a stranger is becoming less popular. | | | | Try to know her schedule or where you see her |
| However, the good-hearted person you are, that | | | | often. Wait for the right moment to happen, so you |
| should not stop you from asking out an interesting | | | | have a higher chance of getting positive results. |
| stranger. | | | | When you see her every morning at your favorite |
| Here are creative ways of asking her out. | | | | café, don't ask her out while she's picking up an |
| Walk Over and Ask | | | | espresso-to-go at 7:30 am. Wait till Friday, when she |
| The least complex but usually hardest way to ask | | | | usually spends the afternoon with her notebook and |
| out a stranger is walking over and asking straight | | | | a tall latte. That should be a good opportunity to |
| away. The very simplicity of walking over and blurting | | | | make conversation. She's in a relaxed state, not in a |
| out a simple, direct question makes the whole | | | | hurry, and maybe open for new acquaintances. |
| strategy challenging. The execution is so simple that | | | | Laundromats are a good place to ask out a stranger. |
| the success or failure of the move lies entirely on the | | | | Why? Because you have the time. There is nothing |
| individual executing it. The proven technique? Have | | | | more boring than waiting for your cycle to finish. And |
| the looks of a Brad Pitt, the wit of a George Clooney | | | | people usually have at least 2: whites and coloreds. |
| and the Cruiser charm, and you'll sure to get a, "yes." | | | | So that's enough time and opportunity for you to |
| However, for the balance of the population who is | | | | gather up the courage and ask. But before doing so, |
| not so fortunate to be like them, there are other | | | | make sure that you've made your background check. |
| options to take, to avoid getting rejected. | | | | Maybe she reads while she waits for the laundry to |
| Start with a Complement | | | | finish. Ask about the book but keep the conversation |
| A complement is always a good way to start. But | | | | light so she will not be put off by your presence. |
| complementing her looks is so passé and | | | | Offer to help when you can, without imposing, so |
| doubtful because it borders on being a pick-up line. | | | | she will not be threatened. Smile genuinely, from the |
| Try to complement her action or things that she | | | | heart and she will see your pure intentions and may |
| uses instead of her looks. If you saw her park | | | | become interested to go out. |
| perfectly, then complement that and ask if she has | | | | A Common Acquaintance |
| time to describe her experience with her car. Ask her | | | | In this small American country, people are connected |
| about the notebook she's using, its value and | | | | to each other, in one way or another. The key is to |
| performance, as you are also interested in getting | | | | find your connection to the stranger that you are |
| one for yourself. Ask about her mobile and if she's | | | | interested in going out with. |
| satisfied with her provider. Those should be good | | | | Spend a week or two observing your stranger. If |
| starting points of a conversation and hopefully you | | | | you are lucky enough to find a common friend, then |
| are able to extend it until you get her number, or a | | | | that is a sure ticket to ask her out. Arrange for a |
| real date. | | | | chance meeting, or a group date to have an |
| Be Familiar to the Stranger | | | | opportunity to have a conversation with her. Soon as |
| Sometimes, asking out strangers are easy if they are | | | | you are able to get past the "hi" and, "hello," then |
| not a total stranger to you. You may have seen her | | | | you should be able to take it through spending some |
| weekly at the fruits section of the grocery or she | | | | time together alone. |
| may have caught your eye as she was loading her | | | | There's much excitement and adventure in asking out |
| laundry. You may not know her name, but you | | | | strangers. Overcoming the challenge is quite fulfilling. |
| certainly can know a lot about her, just by observing | | | | However, make sure that your intentions are genuine |
| her. | | | | and good, for only the pure at heart deserve to go |
| If you find a potential date with any of the strangers | | | | out with the interesting stranger. |