| Women these days are smart and cautious. | | | | interest by observing her more closely. |
| With the amount of date rape cases on | | | | Try to know her schedule or where you |
| the rise, going out on a date with a | | | | see her often. Wait for the right moment |
| stranger is becoming less popular. | | | | to happen, so you have a higher chance |
| However, the good-hearted person you | | | | of getting positive results. |
| are, that should not stop you from | | | | When you see her every morning at your |
| asking out an interesting stranger. | | | | favorite café, don't ask her out while |
| Here are creative ways of asking her | | | | she's picking up an espresso-to-go at |
| out. | | | | 7:30 am. Wait till Friday, when she |
| Walk Over and Ask | | | | usually spends the afternoon with her |
| The least complex but usually hardest | | | | notebook and a tall latte. That should |
| way to ask out a stranger is walking | | | | be a good opportunity to make |
| over and asking straight away. The very | | | | conversation. She's in a relaxed state, |
| simplicity of walking over and blurting | | | | not in a hurry, and maybe open for new |
| out a simple, direct question makes the | | | | acquaintances. |
| whole strategy challenging. The | | | | Laundromats are a good place to ask out |
| execution is so simple that the success | | | | a stranger. Why? Because you have the |
| or failure of the move lies entirely on | | | | time. There is nothing more boring than |
| the individual executing it. The proven | | | | waiting for your cycle to finish. And |
| technique? Have the looks of a Brad | | | | people usually have at least 2: whites |
| Pitt, the wit of a George Clooney and | | | | and coloreds. So that's enough time and |
| the Cruiser charm, and you'll sure to | | | | opportunity for you to gather up the |
| get a, "yes." | | | | courage and ask. But before doing so, |
| However, for the balance of the | | | | make sure that you've made your |
| population who is not so fortunate to be | | | | background check. Maybe she reads while |
| like them, there are other options to | | | | she waits for the laundry to finish. Ask |
| take, to avoid getting rejected. | | | | about the book but keep the conversation |
| Start with a Complement | | | | light so she will not be put off by your |
| A complement is always a good way to | | | | presence. Offer to help when you can, |
| start. But complementing her looks is so | | | | without imposing, so she will not be |
| passé and doubtful because it borders | | | | threatened. Smile genuinely, from the |
| on being a pick-up line. Try to | | | | heart and she will see your pure |
| complement her action or things that she | | | | intentions and may become interested to |
| uses instead of her looks. If you saw | | | | go out. |
| her park perfectly, then complement that | | | | A Common Acquaintance |
| and ask if she has time to describe her | | | | In this small American country, people |
| experience with her car. Ask her about | | | | are connected to each other, in one way |
| the notebook she's using, its value and | | | | or another. The key is to find your |
| performance, as you are also interested | | | | connection to the stranger that you are |
| in getting one for yourself. Ask about | | | | interested in going out with. |
| her mobile and if she's satisfied with | | | | Spend a week or two observing your |
| her provider. Those should be good | | | | stranger. If you are lucky enough to |
| starting points of a conversation and | | | | find a common friend, then that is a |
| hopefully you are able to extend it | | | | sure ticket to ask her out. Arrange for |
| until you get her number, or a real | | | | a chance meeting, or a group date to |
| date. | | | | have an opportunity to have a |
| Be Familiar to the Stranger | | | | conversation with her. Soon as you are |
| Sometimes, asking out strangers are easy | | | | able to get past the "hi" and, "hello," |
| if they are not a total stranger to you. | | | | then you should be able to take it |
| You may have seen her weekly at the | | | | through spending some time together |
| fruits section of the grocery or she may | | | | alone. |
| have caught your eye as she was loading | | | | There's much excitement and adventure in |
| her laundry. You may not know her name, | | | | asking out strangers. Overcoming the |
| but you certainly can know a lot about | | | | challenge is quite fulfilling. However, |
| her, just by observing her. | | | | make sure that your intentions are |
| If you find a potential date with any of | | | | genuine and good, for only the pure at |
| the strangers that you regularly see as | | | | heart deserve to go out with the |
| you head to the office, then create | | | | interesting stranger. |