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Article #133: I Pulled A Fast One on My Obese Husband - Now He's Skinny and Loving It!

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I really didn't mean to be devious. I was sounding soups like Cauliflower au Gratin
worried about his health and mine. I and Vegetable-Cheddar Soup.
finally went cold turkey and gave up my That's where it all began. The first
two pack-a-day cigarette habit and put on meal I served was the Chicken with the
40 lbs. He weighed 241 lbs. and tried Creamy Mustard Sauce. We thought we died
every diet in creation. After being on and went to heaven! When Chubby Hubby
that famous high-protein diet, bacon and raved I just played it cool and told him
eggs every morning and steak for dinner, I purchased a new cookbook. No talk
he wound up having a triple bypass. I'm about healthy cooking, not a word about
usually not a nagging wife, but I knew low fat and heaven help me if I mentioned
this kind of eating couldn't be right. the dreaded word 'diet'.
He would tell anyone who would listen how Two weeks passed. I noticed my husband
he was losing weight and I wouldn't leave was depressed and seemed worried about
him alone. something. He's not one to pour his
Not being a motivated person, I knew I problems out easily. It took time to
needed help from a support group. How finally get it out of him. "I'm really
ridiculous to think my husband would join concerned about something" he said very
with me. Do you know how hard it is to seriously. "I've lost a lot of weight
find men at these meetings? I couldn't for no reason and I think there must be
imagine him getting on a scale every week something terribly wrong with me."
in front of all these women, so there I Now I know it was cruel for me to laugh,
was on my own. but I had to. When I told him those
The most important fact I learned from my meals that he was raving about nightly
group leader that day is that (we hope were low in fat and portioned correctly,
not intentionally), husbands, friends and it took a while to sink in. His plate
family will try to sabotage you. "Have was as full as always. The difference
another helping, it's good for you!" was that now it was filled with normal
Sound familiar? I realized this was true portions of meat and more with
when I got home and with renewed deliciously seasoned vegetables plus
excitement I rambled on about my meeting, either rice, potatoes or pasta.
the interesting diet plan and how they We continued to eat well. No gimmicks, no
all laughed when I said my goal was to pills, no cabbage soup or grapefruit
find my cheekbones again. He had this diets. I relearned the art of cooking
blank stare that said I'm happy for you and we both have a new respect for food.
but if you're going to do this, I don't We're both looking great. I lost my 40
really want to hear about it. He's not lbs and more, he now weighs 178 lbs.
usually the kind that tunes me out like Please understand that unlike the diet
that so I was a bit upset but I knew he ads on TV, we did not do this in 6 weeks.
really meant it. It's unhealthy to yo-yo diet. Have
At the next weekly meeting, I thumbed patience! After a while we realized that
through the cookbooks for sale. I we would also have to change our
purchased the one that had quick and easy lifestyle so my svelte husband is out on
menus and lots of comfort food. My the treadmill almost every day and I take
thought was that it wouldn't be necessary aerobic classes twice a week and instruct
to cook something different for the two line dancing three times a week. By the
of us. He would love things like Creamy way, we're in our 70's still eating right
Broccoli-Topped Pasta, Chicken or Veal and still going strong.
with Creamy Mustard Sauce, and luscious






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